Are you really going to commit a suicide? But why? Let me
guess the reason may be your family is not good; may be you are betrayed by
your lover; may be you are in debt; may be you are failed in your work or may
be people of your surroundings annoy, torcher or ragg you that you are not
smart or intelligent. Whatever it is but do you have only 2 minutes before your
commitment. If, yes, so please read this article. May be you’ll change your
mind.
Fine! Now if you are reading my article so it is my duty to
make your suicide commitment fail. I’ll talk on suicide topics in decreasing
order of their occurrence. First which I think, may be you have been failed in
your work or in any examination which you or your family expected you to
achieve. Forget it yaar na! “Jo nahi mila uske bare me soch-sosh kar dil kyun chhota
karna?” see forward may be you have not qualified the examination because the
other big achievement is waiting for you after it. Is the examination which you
have not qualified was more important than your life? According to myself, the
answer of this question will always be “No” for anyone. Or maybe you know that
examination was not more important than your talent but you are going to
suicide just after thinking that,”Papa kya kahenge; Mummy kya kahengi; ye kya
kahenge; wo kya kahenge;wagairah-wagairah” oh! Just leave them,” Kuch to log
kahenge logo ka kaam hai kahena.” My advice for you, just look inside you,
every person is full of fantastic ideas . put anyone from one of them living
inside you. This world is really very huge platform just perform your idea on
it and definitely one day you will be at that place where you may never reach
after qualifying that rubbish your examination. And do you know why I’m so sure
about your success in your idea because the idea is “your”, not of your family
or teachers. Now if you are satisfied with me then don’t leave the article here
I’ve many things for you. Keep on reading.
Now come close to our “lovers”. You are going to die because
either your loveone has betrayed you or he/she has gone far away from you due
to other reasons. If he/she have betrayed you so tell me one thing,”Are you
mad?” that you are going to die for the person who even don’t love you or
doesn’t have any care about you. Oh! Just leave him/her forget him/her. That
person is not able for your precious love my friend, even I would say he/she is
not worthy for your anger too. We are now more than seven million, just leave
him/her,’ Ek se ek khubshurat chehre pade hai is duniya me, ek gaya to dusra
ayege, dusra gaya to teesra………..Ye sab to chalta hi rahega.” Be practical my
friend.
Now for those whose loveone become far away from them due to
any other reasons. Friend! Whatever had happened and whatever will, is not in
our hand. We are here to just perform our works. I’ll again say,”Whatever bad
is happening with us is just because any other better thing is waiting for us.”
Now just wipe your eyes and step forward, do your duties so well that in case
if you again meet your lover in your future there will rest no reason which can
repeat the bad history again.
Now the third category may be for those people who are being
annoyed or insulted by their surrounding people just because of their any tiny
weakness. Before talking to you I would like to tell you about an extract from
the Mahabharata. You definitely have listened about Dronacharya. He was the
great person who was able to function or control any weapon of his time
excellently. He had all the knowledge of the world and he was the instructor of
Pandavas as well as Kauravas . Once , in his time, he was insulted by his bosom
friend king Dhrupad. Dhrupad made laugh of his knowledge and teaching. Guru
Dron was much able to take revenge by himself at that moment. But he did not do
that he decided that I’ll take revenge by my teaching. I’ll train and teach some
yuvarajs who can take revenge in place of me. And with his owe he taught
yuvrajs of the Hastinapur and took revenge from his friend as he planned.
May be you all have guessed why I presented this story
before you. I’m trying to say if you are being insulted so don’t finish
yourself. If you do so then you will make them unexceptionably right. Just work
on your weakness, keep practicing and keep performing,” Are ek baar nahi hoga,
Do baar nahi Hoga……..Kabhi to hoga.” Human brain is so powerful we can do anything
we want just make it believe for your mind to be possible and then see how your
mind also changes the impossible things into the possible one. Don’t let your
insulter go without your reply see them what you are by your performance.
It’s time for those
who are in either in debt or have done any wrong work that they are sure that people will kill
you. Tell me one thing, if you are so sure that people will definitely kill you
so why are you committing suicide by yourself and taking sin on you. Do you know
according to Hindu Mythology there is a book called the Garunpuran. In the book
there is a brief description about the punishments that are given us for our
bad works after our death In hell. And there is also a very dangerous
punishment described for those who attempt a suicide. Believe me it is the
worst punishment written in the book for any other sin.
Just accept your guilt and ask for sometime to make the things
right again may be you will be believed as Tata Sky use to keep on
saying,”Puchne me kya jata hai?” if you have done bad with others then you will
not be happy after your death too. Do something good for the helpless people.
You will definitely have heaven.
Now the last is for everyone, may be you are living in the
worst situations in the world but learn from that rose which is happy and make
others happy after living among lots of thrown. We don’t have any control on
circumstances, if we have control on anything that is ourselves. We can make
changes into us only other will not always obey us blindly. So just face the
world because life is nothing but a series of survivals.
After all this I would love to talk to those who think that
after committing suicide they will proof that they have guts to suicide. There is
no bravery in this act. If commitment of a suicide is an act of bravery then
there will be much bravery needed to live life without attempting it so be
brave not coward because history also remembers only the brave. And if you
think that after death you’ll go to God and say him to give you rebirth so that
you may start from beginning and in your next life you will not repeat the
mistakes that you have made in this life, so this all is rubbish. Let the God
exist and He can gave us new life so tell me one thing why would God give you new
life? As you have wasted one and let if He agree then what is the guarantee
that you will not repeat your mistakes in your next life. You even will not be
able to remember all this. So please don’t do this with yourself. Live this
life. It is the gift of God to us. Don’t waste it.
NOTE: If my this article have saved your life so please let me
inform I’ll be glad to hear from you.
Written by-
AKANSHU GUPTA
5th DEC. 2013; 11:20pm
